Not 100% happy but it will have to do!

So we waited and waited for the report to come from the clinical psychologist, it was over due for a week and the school really need it so they can send off for Kaine's Statement of Educational Needs, school have rung him and asked where it is and so have I! I got a call on Friday to say that Kaine's session was cancelled due to Dr Taylor being ill so I asked yet again for his report and was politely told that it had been sent to the Educational Psychologist and to the GP-what about school as they are the ones that needed it a week ago! Apparently they aren't getting one and as for us well ours is sat in their office waiting to be picked up-cheeky sods so Nick got on the phone and told them to post it asap....they did and it arrived yesterday! Well to say the least the grammar was off-seems someone doesn't know how to use a spell checker! Apparently I was married to Kaine's father-NOT TRUE. Apparently Kaine had been doing great at his new school until the end of July-NOT TRUE-he went about a month and then differences were seen and I have evidence to prove it...yes he wasn't physically attacking people until then but there were concerns. Apparently Kaine's behaviour started to go downhill from when I was pregnant-NOT TRUE-it happened months before this! The list goes on but you get my picture! It mentions the school and how they need help and it mentions that unless help is put into place that he won't be able to access mainstream school, it mentions that the educational psychologist is concerned and even though Kaine has learning difficulties it is his behaviour that is having the biggest impact. It also goes on to say that while Dr Taylor saw Kaine he was polite, well behaved and showed o signs of Oppositional Defiance Disorder-well I didn't bluddy diagnose him so that ain't my problem and of course he will be fine-he is sat playing with bluddy toys you nit wit! Try asking him to wash his face and then you will see his bluddy defiance, try bringing in another child and he will soon feel threatened that he will loose Dr Taylor to this other child and then he will show his true colours of attack! But in Dr Taylor's favour he did say that it did appear that Kaine was choosing when and how to react but this was due to him being unable to emotionally rationalise the fact that it is ok to have more than one friend and that everyone around him isn't a potential threat and that Kaine can break and mend friendships-he just doesn't have the capability of able able to do this. the main thing which we needed in that report was for him to directly say what he said in that room of 15 witnesses and guess what--he didn't say it direct at all which is absolutely ironic especially when he is demanding it. Ok I know Dr Taylor is a wee bit young and he has only been to one other multi meeting before but he has to have balls as pussy footing around the social services and not being direct won't get us shit! He demanded therapeutic respite care and wanted it asap but in his report he says that we need therapeutic care and we as parents need support....I hope for his sake he has sent a different direct letter requesting what Kaine needs to social services because they are already not willing to help and if they see it as they aren't being directly asked then they ain't guna budge at all. I feel like I am working with a bunch of amateurs, we haven't even had the minutes of the meeting, social services don't want to help and the educational psychologist is retiring in December and he is trying to get the SEN under way but will read the report and it doesn't directly say what it needs to say to be able to flaming help Kaine at all! When will people learn to listen and then do things properly-no wonder the system fails so many children! www.AnimalAgentz.com http://darkangel6976.stumbleupon.com